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"When Adar comes, we increase our happiness!" (Taanit 29a)

Today we celebrate Rosh Chodesh and joyously welcome the Hebrew month of Adar.  When this time comes around, the Talmud instructs us to increase our happiness level.  In fact, this is one of the few seasons that we are actually commanded to be in a positive, even happy, mood.  Although it seems strange that our tradition would tell us how to feel at a particular time, some of the mitzvot associated with the upcoming holiday of Purim can help us to achieve a happier demeanor.  These observances help us to focus on the hidden miracles that bless our lives each day.  All of the customs on Purim are designed to remind us to

• appreciate and give thanks to the Almighty for the Divine protection we enjoy. 
• cherish our families and close friends, upon whom we rely for support and inspiration.
• realize our potential to help others in need.

In addition to reading the Purim story in Megillat Esther, participating in a festive Purim celebration and sending Mishloach Manot (food related care packages) to our friends and neighbors, there is another very important mitzvah to be completed in this season which adds to our sense of satisfaction.  It is known in our rabbinic texts as Matanot L'evyonim or giving charity to those who are less fortunate.  These gifts help the recipients in obvious and measurable ways, but let me suggest that this precept is central to this season because of the personal affect giving has on the giver.  

Newton's law of every action having an equal and opposite reaction surely applies to charitable giving as well.  The satisfaction we feel after having effectively helped others to improve their lives enriches us spiritually and helps us to achieve personal happiness.

Although sometimes outside factors influence us emotionally, an important lesson of the month of Adar is that we do have control over how we feel by virtue of our actions.  When we do good for others we, in turn, feel more complete, useful and happy.

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Wishing you and your family a Shabbat Shalom and a very happy Adar!

Rabbi Steve Suson